Five Years Later: Lessons, Growth, and Turning 30

Hello 30: A New Decade, A New Chapter

It feels surreal to be typing here again after five years of silence. Life has been moving so fast that my little corner of the internet was left untouched, waiting patiently for me to return. And here I am — a little older, a little wiser, and officially stepping into a brand-new decade of life.

On 1st August 2025, I celebrated my 30th birthday with a visit to Zoo Negara — simple, joyful, and nostalgic. It reminded me that while the world is constantly changing, some joys remain timeless. Turning 30 feels like both a milestone and a fresh canvas. So, before I look ahead, I want to pause and reflect on the journey that brought me here.

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✨ The Last 5 Years: A Season of Growth

Five years may sound like a long time, but for me, it has been a season of transformation. In that span, I stepped into roles I never imagined — as a wife, a mother, and a master’s graduate.

Marriage (December 2021):

The journey of love and partnership began when I said “I do.” Marriage taught me the beauty of companionship, patience, and building a life together.

Master’s Degree (Feb 2022 – Feb 2024):

I enrolled in my Master in Facilities Management at UiTM Shah Alam, balancing late nights of assignments with daily responsibilities. It wasn’t easy, but it was worth every moment. On 26th May 2025, I proudly walked across the stage at Istiadat Konvokesyen UiTM ke-101. That day was more than just a ceremony — it was proof that perseverance pays off.

Motherhood (Feb 2023):

The most life-changing milestone of all was welcoming my son into this world. Becoming a mother reshaped me in ways I can’t fully describe. The sleepless nights, the laughter, the tiny milestones — they’ve all become the heartbeat of my days.

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🌿 The Passions That Stayed

While life has changed dramatically, some parts of me remain the same. I still love hiking, chasing that sense of freedom and peace on a trail. I still find joy in travelling, exploring new places and creating memories along the way. And of course, I still treasure the quiet moments of reading, losing myself in stories that spark imagination and reflection.

These passions remind me that even as we evolve, we carry pieces of our younger selves forward. They ground me, reminding me who I am beyond the roles and responsibilities I hold.

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🌸 Stepping into 30

Now, as I enter my 30s, I feel a beautiful mix of gratitude and excitement. My 20s were about discovering who I was; my 30s, I believe, will be about living with intention.

I want this decade to be about:

Balance: between family, career, and self-care.

Adventure: continuing to travel, hike, and explore the world with my loved ones.

Growth: in faith, knowledge, and personal development.

Presence: cherishing moments with my son, my husband, and the people who matter most.

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📝 Why I’m Writing Again

So why come back to this blog after five years? Because writing has always been my way of grounding myself — of pausing to reflect, to share, and to remember. This blog is not just about me; it’s about capturing the little and big moments of life, so one day I can look back and say, “Yes, I lived fully.”

Here’s to my 30s. Here’s to growth, adventure, and everything in between. And here’s to writing again — may this space bloom with stories of the next chapter.

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